A New York appellate court has upheld a lower court's decision to grant primary physical custody of two children to their father, James R. K., in a case that highlights the importance of child safety in custody disputes. The ruling, issued on June 26, 2026, affects the family of Brenda L. M., the children's mother, who sought to change the custody arrangement. The case underscores the courts' focus on the well-being of children in custody matters.
The case, officially titled Matter of Brenda L. M. v. James R. K., was filed under docket number 535 CAF 25-00769. The Appellate Division of the Supreme Court of the State of New York reviewed the decision made by Family Court in Herkimer County, which had continued the father's primary custody after a hearing on the matter.
The dispute arose after both parents filed petitions alleging changes in circumstances that warranted a review of the existing custody arrangement. Brenda L. M. argued that she should have primary custody of the children, while James R. K. maintained that he was providing a safer environment for them. The Family Court had to consider these competing claims and assess the best interests of the children.
The Family Court, led by Judge Thaddeus J. Luke, determined that there had indeed been a change in circumstances, which allowed for a reassessment of custody. However, the court ultimately found that it was in the best interests of the children to remain in the father's custody. The court ruled, "We conclude that Family Court did not abuse its discretion in continuing the father's primary physical custody of the children, and denying the mother's petitions seeking primary physical custody." This ruling emphasized the importance of the court's firsthand assessment of witness credibility during the evidentiary hearing.
The Appellate Division, consisting of Judges Whalen, Curran, Ogden, Greenwood, and Hannah, unanimously affirmed the lower court's decision. They noted that the Family Court's determination was supported by a substantial basis in the record, particularly regarding the safety of the children. Evidence presented during the hearing indicated that the father provided a safer home environment compared to the mother.
One significant concern raised during the proceedings was a recent incident where one of the children was bitten by the mother's dog while unsupervised. The court noted that this incident, along with other safety issues, contributed to the decision to keep the children with their father. Additionally, there were concerns about the mother's ability to protect the children from potential harm, particularly regarding their half-brother, who had allegedly sexually abused them.
The ruling also addressed the mother's claims that the court erred in not appointing a separate attorney for one of the children and in admitting certain child protective services (CPS) notes into evidence. The court found that the mother's objection to the attorney's appointment was unpreserved for review, as she did not raise it during the fact-finding hearing. Regarding the CPS notes, the court stated that there was no indication that the judge relied on those notes in making the custody decision.
This ruling has significant implications for custody cases in New York, as it reaffirms the principle that the safety and well-being of children are paramount in custody determinations. The court's emphasis on the importance of firsthand witness credibility and the evidentiary basis for decisions may influence future custody disputes, particularly those involving allegations of unsafe environments.
The decision also highlights the courts' responsibilities in ensuring that children are protected from potential harm when determining custody arrangements. Parents involved in custody disputes may take note of this ruling, as it underscores the importance of presenting a safe and stable environment for children.
Looking ahead, it remains unclear whether Brenda L. M. will seek further appeals following this ruling. The appellate decision does not preclude her from pursuing additional legal avenues, but any such actions would need to address the specific findings made by the court. As of now, there are no related cases pending that could influence this ruling.
The court filing did not name the attorneys involved in the case, but it is clear that the ruling will have lasting effects on the family and may serve as a reference point for future custody cases in New York.











